There’s growing awareness that autism spectrum conditions come in many forms—and they don’t look the same in everyone. It’s a lifelong condition, and research shows there are lots of different causes.
You might hear people talk about “high functioning autism” (yep, it used to be called Asperger’s Disorder), and we think it’s important to know the difference between this and other forms of autism spectrum disorder. In our experience, recognizing these distinctions helps us offer support that truly fits each person’s needs.
High Functioning Autism
We see this not as a disease, but as a unique brain style. People with high-functioning autism often have amazing strengths—like sharp memory, honesty, and a literal way of thinking. But they can also struggle with sensory overload and picking up on social cues. Most of their challenges come from the world expecting them to fit into a “normal” mold, rather than embracing their “new normal.”
Sadly, these individuals are often misunderstood. Kids might be labeled as troublemakers, and adults may feel anxious or isolated. Aggression can sometimes be a sign that their environment isn’t meeting their needs. Over time, many feel discouraged or pushed to the margins.
Our first step is figuring out whether someone truly has autism spectrum disorder. It’s important to remember that not every challenge means autism—there are other brain styles too. Parents can feel frustrated if their child doesn’t meet the formal criteria, but that doesn’t mean their child’s struggles aren’t real. Diagnosing autism takes experience and skill, especially since it looks different at different ages.
For younger kids (under 10), we often use a specialized test called the ADOS (Autism Diagnostic Observation Scale). Whether it’s a child or an adult, working with a trained professional makes a big difference.
Once someone understands they’re on the spectrum, it can be a huge relief. Parents finally have answers, and individuals stop blaming themselves. We help them explore what parts of their personality come from autism—and how to embrace that. Therapy can teach new skills, like making friends, dating, or helping parents work with their child’s behaviors. It also helps people heal from past hurt caused by misunderstanding.
Other forms of Autism Spectrum Disorder
It’s important to remember that not everyone with autism is the same—some folks have challenges that look pretty different from what you might expect. For example, some kids might not speak at all, and sharing what they want can be tough for them. That’s where we come in: we help kids and families discover new ways to communicate, whether that’s at home or in school.
Sometimes, children with more involved autism might show behaviors like hitting themselves or banging their heads because they’re struggling to express themselves. You might notice they tend to keep to themselves or, on the flip side, suddenly act out. And yet, there are moments when they’re incredibly sweet and easygoing, asking for very little from those around them.
No matter what form autism takes, our goal is always the same—we’re here to support each person and their family in the way that works best for them. Every journey with autism is unique, and we’re committed to walking alongside you every step of the way.
Treatment Resources
Medications can help with specific challenges like anxiety, attention issues, aggression, or mood swings. But most of all, we celebrate these individuals and help their families see them in a new light. We pass along solutions we have learned through our work and through other families.
